Candle or Mirror ?

Edith Wharton said, "There are two ways to spread light; to be the candle, or the mirror that reflects it."

 Yes, very cool candles.  I got the image here.

Which one are you?

 I like this mirror, and I got the image here.

I think I am a mirror.  I don't think I give light as much as I reflect it.  My light (inspirations) comes from God, my children, my husband, friends, etc.

So, The big question of the day...Are you a candle or a mirror?  What does the light you give say about you?